How it works
Four simple steps, at whatever pace suits you.
Step one
Join in a few minutes
Fill in the short form above. It's free and only takes a few minutes.
Step two
Meet people near you
Say what you're looking for and where you live, and browse members who are looking for the same.
Step three
Take your time
Chat for as long as you like before you meet. There's no rush, and no pressure.
Step four
Get VIP Access
Upgrade to VIP for unlimited messaging, priority support and seeing who viewed your profile.
Age is just a number
A place where confident women and younger men can meet without having to explain the age gap.
No explaining
Everyone's here for the same reason
The Cougar Pond is made for older women and the younger men who admire them, so the age gap is the attraction, not the awkward bit.
Your choice
Fun, flirting or something more
Say whether you're after something casual, a bit of flirting or a relationship, and meet people who want the same.
Dating safely
Your safety comes first
Private messaging, profile badges and simple ways to report anyone who doesn't feel right. Share as little as you like until you're comfortable.
Tips for your dating journey
Practical guidance on age-gap dating, from your first message to your first date.
Getting started
Cougar dating: where to start
What it is, who it suits, and how to begin at your own pace.
For the women
Dating a younger man
What to expect, and what makes it work.
For the men
Dating an older woman
How to make a good impression, and the mistakes to avoid.
Dating safely
How to spot a fake dating profile
The warning signs, including too much flattery, too soon.