What the badges mean

Badges that show someone is genuine

The ID Verified tick

Shows that a member has verified their identity with official ID, so you can be confident they match their photos. According to Plenty More Fish's own figures, verified members get around 15 times more interaction from others.

How to get it: Verify your profile with a government ID. It's optional and free for every member.

The validation badge

Shows that a member of our team has reviewed and approved the profile. A good alternative for anyone who'd rather not share identity documents.

How to get it: Ask for admin profile validation. No sensitive documents are needed.

Badges you earn by being a good member

The Anti-Ghosting badge

Shows that a member consistently replies to their messages, so you're less likely to be left hanging.

How to get it: Reply to your messages, even when it's a polite no. The one-click replies make it quick and kind.

Chatterbox, Heartthrob and Most Popular

Badges you earn through your activity on the site. They show other members you're real and active.

How to get it: Keep your profile up to date, join in on the discovery feed, and chat to people.

The community safety badge

Awarded to members who help keep The Cougar Pond safe by reporting fake or suspicious profiles.

How to get it: Use the report button on any profile that doesn't seem right.

Member ratings

Every member has a rating that other members can vote up or down. When you're deciding who to message, a high rating is a good sign.