Choose the right photos
Your photos are the first thing people see, so make them count.
- Use recent photos. Ones that look like you do now.
- Show your face clearly in your main picture, with natural light and a smile.
- Add a couple more of you doing things you enjoy.
Be honest about your age
On a site built around age-gap dating, your age is part of the attraction.
Taking years off only leads to awkward conversations later. The people messaging you are interested precisely because of who you are.
Say what you're looking for
Something fun, something serious, or open to seeing where it goes: a single line saying which saves everyone time and brings you better matches.
Give people something to talk about
- Mention a few things you love, whether that's travel, food, music or a favourite walk.
- Be specific. "I'm planning a trip to Lisbon" starts more conversations than "I like travelling".
- Keep it upbeat. Talk about what you want, not what you don't.
Earn the badges
Verifying your profile and replying to messages earn badges that show other members you're genuine. Read what the badges mean.