Why it works
Plenty of men are genuinely drawn to an older woman, and not as a passing phase.
Confidence, experience and knowing what you want are attractive at any age. Many younger men say they enjoy dating someone who is direct, settled in herself, and doesn't play games.
What to expect
- Different stages of life. He may still be building a career while you're more settled. That can be a strength, as long as you talk about it.
- Different references. Music, films and slang won't always match. Most couples find this more fun than awkward.
- Different plans. Children, moving in, the long term: worth raising once things get serious, not on the first date.
What makes it work
- Be yourself. He's interested in you as you are, so there's no need to act younger.
- Treat him as an equal. Share the planning, the decisions and the bill if you both like.
- Say what you want. Whether it's something fun or something lasting, being clear saves you both time.
If other people's opinions are on your mind, read handling the age gap.
Trust your instincts. Anyone who asks for money, gifts or financial help, whatever their age, isn't someone to keep talking to. Read how to spot a fake dating profile.