What cougar dating is
Cougar dating simply means a woman dating a man who is younger than her.
Some couples are a few years apart, others a couple of decades. What they share is that both people know what they like and aren't put off by the number on a birth certificate.
Who it suits
- Women who know what they want and enjoy the energy and fun a younger partner can bring.
- Men who are drawn to confidence, experience and someone who's comfortable in her own skin.
- Anyone who'd rather be honest about who they're attracted to than pretend otherwise.
Getting started
- Be clear about what you're looking for. Something fun, something serious, or you'll see where it goes. All are fine; just say so.
- Write a profile that sounds like you. Our guide on writing a profile that gets noticed can help.
- Start a few conversations. Read how to start a conversation on a dating site for ideas.
- Go at your own pace. There's no rush to meet, and no pressure to say yes to anyone.
Keep yourself safe
Keep early conversations on the site, never send money to anyone you've met online, and meet somewhere public when you're ready. Our guide on how to spot a fake dating profile explains the warning signs.